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Trekking the South Downs Way

Emma Cornthwaite hikes the South Downs Way

Emma Cornthwaite hikes the South Downs Way

My name is Emms Cornthwaite, I am ‘Mrs Yes’. My lovely and wildly adventurous hubby started SayYesMore and The YesTribe and now I help him run them.

I have travelled and worked all over the world, often leading teenage groups or groups of runners or trekkers to developing countries to explore new cultures and raise awareness for global issues… yet for all of my travels, I have never really done a solo adventure. There never seemed to be the ‘right time’ (or so I told myself) but since Covid-19 halted all my work projects, I started thinking that maybe now is the time.

Adventure Prep 

Choosing the route was easy - I grew up in Hampshire and The YesBus has been based within shouting distance of the South Downs National Park for three years so I thought, Boom! I’ve always been curious about the path and it made sense for my first solo trip walking and camping alone, that I do it in an area not too far from ‘home’ and where I knew there were people based not too far away if I got myself into any bother.

Timing was opportunistic as Dave was heading off for two weeks for his first job since the start of lockdown and my diary was flexible, and it just so happened that the weather also looked super sunny with temperatures in the 30’s for the whole week.

The retro National Trail Guide I was following backwards!

The retro National Trail Guide I was following backwards!

I decided I was going to go for the hike only three days before I set off and only spent about two hours in front of a laptop doing research, which mostly consisted of reading other people’s blogs. I figured there was no need for weeks of planning for an adventure so close to home and if I thought about too much I might talk myself out of it.

I had done no training (having sat on my bum the majority of lockdown!) and had no plan other than to follow a South Downs Way guide book from 1996 which I found in the Adventure Library on the YesBus… but had to follow it backwards as the route in the book went west from Eastbourne to Winchester and I decided to go the opposite direction.

Being a National Trail, I knew there’d be plenty of info out there - I found these National Trail leaflets really handy - and the signage on the trail was super easy to spot and follow the whole way, so I barely needed to use the guidebook.

Map courtesy of Cicerone. For an interactive Google Map with my saved spots scroll all the way to the end

Map courtesy of Cicerone. For an interactive Google Map with my saved spots scroll all the way to the end

With a dear friend and YesTriber leaving England the following weekend I decided to start on a Sunday and aim to finish by the next Saturday morning.

Originally, I thought 100 miles - over 5 days - 20 miles a day sounded like a decent challenge and definitely doable… I just didn’t account for the relentless hills and apocalyptic weather which dramatically altered my plans!

The only planning I really felt the need to do for this trip was how to travel to the start in Winchester and then how to get home from Eastbourne after I’d finished. I eventually settled on parking up at my mum’s in Southampton, begging for a ride to the start, then catching a train once I’d finished back to get my van.

I wrote a vague post on The YesTribe Sussex and YesTribe Hampshire group walls for tips from anybody who had done the South Downs Way and was blown away by the amount of comments I received - lots of advice on favourite spots to look out for and offers of help for parking, lifts, water, showers, camping spots and plenty of well wishes saying what a beautiful trek it was. With this I was fuelled with positivity for the journey and was ready to roll.

It is worth noting that The YesTribe is an ever-evolving online community of people all over the world and the group exists to encourage and empower individuals to become more brave, kind and curious and to make life memorable. This is a personal account of my through-hike of the South Downs Way and the help I received was purely good luck of having kind folk nearby who were able to help on that particular day. The YesTribe community can always be relied upon for advice and good feels during a journey but please remember not to depend upon acts of kindness during the planning of your adventure - just to welcome them if they appear.

Gear

Here is a list of exactly everything I carried with me and would recommend taking if you’re considering the trip yourself…

A backpack with lots of external pockets and straps is super handy

A backpack with lots of external pockets and straps is super handy

The majority of my kit, minus clothes and food

The majority of my kit, minus clothes and food

  • 35L backpack with plenty of pockets similar to this one (mine was a cheap and cheerful number from Mountain Warehouse about 10 years ago. No need to spend loads of money)

  • Trekking boots - definitely recommend having a solid boot with thick soles and ankle support. I read horror stories of blisters due to the uneven and harsh rocky trail and luckily I only got a tiny one under my toe thanks to the awesomeness of my boots! I’ve got KEEN waterproof trekking boots and I swear by them

  • Walking poles - I had barely any experience with these beforehand but they really helped my ankles and knees on the hills, especially towards the end of a long day and to prevent ‘walkers’ fat hands syndrome’! I borrowed this Leki lightweight set

  • For Sleeping: I borrowed a RAB Ridge Raider Bivi Bag from my friend Keith, took a lightweight sleep mat by Thermarest, a lightweight 2 season sleeping bag and a small and very squishable travel pillow

  • For sun protection: Factor 50+ sunscreen spray and a tiny 50+ face and lip sun stick from Decathalon. A sun hat, SayYesMore Buffs x2 and Sungod polarised sunnies - important as you spend a lot of time exposed to the elements and the chalky path is super bright

  • For eating/drinking: a small Jetboil, a spork, a lighter, mora knife (or penknife), a SayYesMore enamel camping mug, a 2 litre water bladder + two external 1 litre water bottles

  • What did I wear? The weather was super hot so I was aware of feeling breezy while avoiding chafing as much as possible! I wore leggings and a loose running top, walking socks & had a lightweight rain jacket stashed in an external pocket for a quick access if needed. I had a lightweight BAM hoody and BAM top, quick dry and lightweight shorts for the evenings, which I also slept in. I chose bamboo clothing as it’s lightweight, super soft and warm but also moisture controlling (in case I was sweating a bunch!). I took 1 spare pair of socks and 2 spare pants so I had a fresh pair in the evenings while washing the worn pair - no need to take a full week’s worth of underwear!

  • Gadgets: iPhone (on airplane mode while walking to save battery), smart watch recording activities (mine is a Suunto 5), PowerTraveller battery pack and solar panel. I did take my kindle but when it didn’t leave my bag for the first 3 days, I decided to part with it when I stopped over with a friend so I didn’t have the extra weight for no reason

  • First Aid Kit: I made up my own of blister plasters, Deep Freeze gel, ibuprofen, antihistamines, muscle tape and contact lens solution

  • And of course, a toothbrush, toothpaste, small bottle of shampoo (which doubled up as soap/shower gel) and my Mooncup (yep! it was my lucky week!)

Ok… that was everything! All except…

The gorgeous rolling hills of the Downs

The gorgeous rolling hills of the Downs

Food!

Who needs a meal plan!? I went to Tesco the morning I left home and bought a few packets of ‘just add water’ meals like macaroni cheese and cup-a-soups and some nut-free nature valley bars.

I then emptied my fridge of anything that would last a few days in my backpack such as celery, cucumber, sugar snap peas, apples, a whole pack of brie and bananas.

I thought I had a stroke of genius so boiled a few eggs as I thought they’d make good protein snacks too but tiny bits of shell did end up going everywhere in my bag. Needless to say, I didn’t really plan my meals very well but assumed I’d come across some shops and cafes along the way. Also took teabags and hot chocolate and coffee sachets we have collected from hotel rooms on our travels!

I find I don’t eat well early in the morning or when I am hot or exercising so I didn’t eat as much as I thought I would. I mainly snacked on veggies and cereal bars during the day and either grabbed a pub meal or a kind local friend supplied evening dinner :)

Water

The water taps were made as obvious as possible

The water taps were made as obvious as possible

There are plenty of official National Trail water taps situated fairly obviously along the trail. It’s well worth saying that many campsites, pubs and cafes along the trail are also more than happy for you fill up as you pass. As you walk the trail, you’ll cross many many MANY farms which have water troughs for cattle that are fed by mains water. You might want to boil this before drinking it though.

This link to the South Downs Way National Trail Guide to Drinking Water was super handy and I have plotted my own water stops on my map at the bottom of the page.

**Please note that I walked the trail during Covid-19 (mid August 2020) when many shops, pubs, hotels, campsites and hostels have different operating times and many weren’t open at all. If you are relying on any of the locations for food, water or shelter, always call ahead to check as these are constantly changing times and I’d hate to think that you were stuck stranded somewhere outside a closed sign after a long day.

The gorgeously bright chalk track…

The gorgeously bright chalk track…

The Summary of the Journey…

Day 1 - Winchester to Beauworth - 9.5 miles - half day - 32 degrees, not a cloud in the sky

Day 2 - Beauworth to Buriton - 17 miles - full day - 33 degrees - lots of ups and downs

Day 3 - Buriton to Cocking - 11.5 miles - half day - 35 degrees - heat exhaustion and rescue mission!

Day 4 - Cocking to Washington - 17 miles - full day - 34 degrees - a day of picnics, friends and ice cream

Day 5 - Washington to Pycombe - 12.5 miles - half day - 24 degrees - well rested and far easier conditions

Day 6 - Pycombe to Alfriston - 22 miles - full day - 23 degrees, moody weather - perfect for the longest and most exposed day 

Day 7 - Alfriston to Eastbourne (via the inland route) - 10.5 miles - half day - 23 degrees and stormy - The first mistake of the trip on the final day (see below!)

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Day-by-Day Happenings

Day 1 - I set out super chilled with no goal, only a willingness to see how I got on. No real plan, no idea of the distance I would cover, I just walked. I walked from 4pm to 8:30pm in 32 degree heat. When it started to get dark, I happened upon a pub so camped in their garden.

It was my first solo ‘wild camp’ in the UK and felt perfectly safe as all was quiet. It was a Sunday night during Covid times so the pub was shut and there was nobody there to ask permission. An old chap happened to walk by so I asked him where I might find someone to ask and he said just go for it, they wouldn’t mind so I thanked him and tucked myself into a corner of the field.

I set up my bivi bed and used the jet boil for hot water, enjoyed Mac ’n’ Cheese and a hot chocolate, a chunk of brie & some celery for dinner and felt thoroughly happy with myself. I sent a pin location to fellow YesTriber and good friend Stace Martin because he messaged to check in and said that someone should know where I was, just in case. I then buttoned down and set an alarm for an early start to beat the heat and leave early before anyone found my secret spot.

Night 1 Sleep Spot: wild camping in the pub garden at The Milbury’s Pub - thank you lovely (albeit unknowing) hosts!

Day 2 - Today involved a bit of country road walking to get out of the Winchester and Meon Valley areas. I met a couple of cyclists but generally nobody else as it was super hot. I did meet a guy traveling very light on a bike who was planning to cycle to Eastbourne and back again within 3 days so I was very impressed.

Lots of steep ups and downs, which were tough going in the heat but it was lovely to see Hampshire, where I had grown up, from a totally new angle. Lots of forest and woodland sections around the area so the shade helped with the heat.

I learned not to hang all your hopes on what people say - a cyclist will always have a different perspective of what is far away verses a walker! It was a hearty 30 degrees and I was on a mission to make it 11 miles during the morning to the Sustainability Centre for lunch. Note: their cafe has limited hours during Covid and was closed when I got there.

A nice kind cyclist told me the centre was ‘really close! Just over there, at the top of the hill at those pylons’ and so I struggled up the hill to the pylons, so ready to stop, and the centre was nowhere to be seen! It was a mile or so beyond the pylons and I was kicking myself for putting so much hope on what the helpful cyclist had said. Anyhoots, I made it to the Sustainability Centre and collapsed in the camp site under a tree where they had a compost loo and drinking tap within easy reach.

I had planned to do 19 miles but stopped at 17 that day after being offered a safe front garden to sleep in. I had stopped part way up a hill to take a photo of a gorgeous act of kindness - a lady was packing away a cute table, dressed with checkered tablecloth and fresh flowers adorned with big jugs of water and cups with a sign that said ‘Help Yourself’.

On closer inspection, there was another sign on the table that said ‘homemade flapjacks —> help yourself’. She was so kind! I got speaking to the lovely lady, Chris, who sets out this spread every day for tired travellers on the trail and she said there were no campsites nearby. Chris, her husband, son and two adorable dogs can be found on the hill on the way up Quarry Walk, just south of Buriton.

Night 2 Sleep Spot: in Good Samaritan Chris’ front garden next to her veggie patch and table of kindness!

Day 3 - This day was a scorcher - 35 degrees! I got up early to put the miles in and was glad I did as it was 33 degrees by 10am. I was struggling. The hills were tough but the long exposed sections with no shade were the killers.

I met a pair of local runners and that was all as it was so hot. Nobody was as mental as me to try the conditions it seemed! I found a temporary water bowser/tank which said ‘Drinking Water - Boil Before Use’ so I figured this was a perfect opportunity for a shower using my SayYesMore mug! I could rinse off 3 days of salt on my skin while also drenching myself to cool down. I dumped my bag and it was cool and GLORIOUS!! After that came a solid 2 hour hike with zero shade and I was ever so grateful for the now soaking wet sun hat and re-applied factor 50+! 

By the time I reached Cocking I was utterly spent and starting to see double. Up until that point I had been reluctant to stray off the path into villages because it would often mean adding on 2 miles and a downhill to get there, plus another 2 miles and an uphill to get back onto the trail. But I made an exception for Cocking, firstly because I was starting to feel unwell due to the heat and also because the village name made me chuckle!

I was heading for a pub in Cocking called The Blue Bell (cue: more giggling) in hope of finding shade, iced drinks and lunch to replace some salts. I got there and must have looked like death, the first thing the bar lady said to me is ‘we don’t do food on Tuesdays’. I didn’t care by this point, ordered 2 pints of squash with lots of ice and sat outside in the shade for an hour to cool down.

Four pints of squash later I decided to call it a day, the heat was so intense and I had some sore spots on my lower back where my bag was rubbing the seams in my leggings. I put a distress call out to the local YesTribes asking if anyone knew anyone nearby who might let me shower with their garden hose and camp in their yard and within 3 minutes I had a phone call and a knight in shining pick-up-truck on his way to rescue me! I took the afternoon to chill, catch up with Nick who let me shower, use his washing machine and set up a gorgeously comfy picnic blanket under a tree in his back garden while his curious chickens investigated their new intruder!

Night 3 Sleep Spot: In YesTriber Nick Burrows’ bell tent in the back garden after he came and rescued me. But it turns out there is a camp site at Manor Farm with shepherds huts to hire right on the path at Cocking

Day 4 - An early start after a much needed rest (I think last night’s Chinese takeaway help restore some salts) and I was back on the trail by 6:30am after Nick dropped me back to Cocking (hehe). Super hot day!

Suzanne (another gorgeously kind and infectiously smiley YesTriber) met me for lunch after I’d done 10 miles, she brought a picnic and a tub of Strawberry Cheesecake ice cream so we lay under a tree in the shade catching up on each others’ news - heaven!! Suzanne had become my unplanned and impromptu support crew from this moment forward, which I was ever so grateful for - she even let me sleep there for half an hour before I set off again and she promised to come and find me to bring dinner later that evening.

I had planned to meet with my dear friend Vicky to camp overnight at an official site. The plan was for her to pick me up from wherever I got to that day but I made it all the way to Washington, which was awesome. I thought I had at least 4 more miles (about an hour and a half walking at my pace) until I got there but just after I messaged her to say so, I saw a sign which might as well have said ‘Vicky - 1 mile’.. Oh my gosh! Only 1 mile!?! My calculations were way off!!

I was so excited I practically ran down the hill into the small town of Washington where I knew she’d be waiting for me. Suzanne visited us in the campsite and brought us some yummy homemade aubergine curry for dinner and we enjoyed a lovely evening of giggles. This was my first real campsite of the trip and I really valued a hot shower to press the ‘relax and reset’ button of my body. I realised my lower back injuries were much worse now after a long 17 mile day of continuous rubbing and the thunderstorms were looming on the horizon as the sun went down. 

Night 4 Sleep Spot: Washington Caravan and Camping Park - All the facilities of a Caravan Club site, families everywhere, parking, it’s opposite a pub which is handy, they do dog agility during the summer, a stream passes through so you can dip your tired feet and there’s a charging hut where you can plug in your electronics and shelter from the weather.

Day 5 - A restless night’s sleep thinking about whether to take a break or to continue plus, the open wounds on my lower back meant finding a comfy position was tricky. I decided that the forecast for three days of thunder and lightning plus my injuries were a recipe for infection, which wasn’t a fun prospect.

As I had to be done by Saturday, I knew I wouldn’t reach the end in two days anyway so I decided to rest up, heal my wounds and tackle the second half next week… so I took the next 4 days off. I spent them lying on my front watching nostalgic movies whilst nibbling Suzanne’s lemon drizzle cake, then had to catch a train back to Winchester where I’d left my van at my mums (it felt like forever since I’d left on that first day of walking) and headed to Wiltshire for a weekend with my migrating friend Janey surrounded by good friends, dogs and ponies - the perfect way to rest and recover! 

Fast forward to Monday, four days later - technically my SDW Day 5 - up early, drive back to the YesBus, leave the van, grab backpack and get trekking again. I was picked up at The YesBus by the lovely Suzanne once again who took me back to Washington where we walked the first 6 miles together before she headed back to her car.

She did so well as she hadn’t trekked in months and shot straight up the first hill with me, our paces were perfectly matched. It was then I realised that although I had set out to do this journey solo, the adventure was made far more enjoyable by the people who had met me along the way and answered my calls for help.

Day 5 was a great day of walking, I think it was because I was so well rested and I got a good send off from a beautifully happy and kind friend.

That night I rocked up at the National Trust Saddlescombe Farm outside Poynings. I’d read they had a campsite but couldn't find details on how to book it so I crossed my fingers as I wondered in at 7pm! A blackboard at the gate to the camping field said it was fully booked, my heart sank into my throbbing feet.

The rain was coming, the temperature had dropped 10 degrees since last week, there were no other campsites around and I really didn’t fancy wild camping if I could help it so I went in search of someone who worked there. Luckily I found a lovely Hagrid lookalike who was locking up for the night and he graciously let me into the campsite where 7 other people had verbally booked but not shown up - excellent! I set up my bivi in the field and headed off a mile down the hill in search of a hot pub meal to balance a day of snacking on little things.

A little tip - the fish and chips in The Royal Oak pub in Poynings is the BEST I have had in years! Not to be missed if you’re in the area! 

Night 5 Sleep Spot: National Trust Saddlescombe Farm, £10 per person in an honesty box. Loo with hot water taps but no showers. During Covid, they are limited to 10 people per night as the camping field is tiny. The sign said fully booked but 7 people didn’t show and as I arrived late in the day, they said I could stay. Worth calling ahead first if you can.

Day 6 - The heavy rain had finally found me overnight and so it took forever to pack up a wet camp and get going. I knew I wanted to cover 21 miles which would be my longest day so I tacked it in three sections:  Poynings to Falmer (10.5 miles), Falmer to Southease (7 miles) and finally Southease to Alfriston (7.5 miles). Stopped for ‘breakfast’ at midday at a motorway food van where the trail crosses the A27 and later stopped to brew a cup of tea under a footbridge on the banks of the River Ouse. There, I called around in search of a campsite booking for that night to spur me on to do the extra miles and get a shower.

I arrived late at a campsite full of screaming children and barking dogs but found a quiet(ish) spot and set up as the sun went down. Only then did I realise that my sleeping bag, mat and bivi were all TOTALLY soaked through from the night before!

Turns out that my top notch borrowed bivi wasn’t waterproof after all! I summoned up my courage and approached the nearest family with a campfire to ask if I could try and dry my sleeping bag at least. They were super lovely - Jesse, Sunny and their three kids Missy, Jasper and Connie were really kind and welcomed me to join their campfire for a couple of hours while I kept rotating my sleeping bag around the heat. Although I was aching for an early night after a 22 mile day, the thought of crawling into a soggy bed was not appealing and it turns out, I really appreciated their company and kindness. 

Night 6 Sleep Spot: Alfriston Camping Park, £10 per person camping. Also a Caravan Club site so lots of families, hot showers, tennis court, horse riding and fire pits available to hire.

Day 7 - It rained more overnight. I probably got about 3 hours sleep in a cold wet bed and I knew more thunderstorms were on their way to chase me towards the finish line. So, up at first light, packed and set off for the last time, nibbling on my last carrot as I left the sleeping campsite. This was it, my final 10 miles and I can be done by lunchtime.

Having had such a long Day 6 and a miserable night in a swamp, I didn’t get around to reading the guidebook about the final section of the trail. I knew that at some point this morning there’d be a cross section where the path split for horses and cyclists to go one way and for walkers to go the other - so I kept my eyes peeled. It turns out that this was a minor mistake!

I wasn’t worried at all about directions as the signage along the route had been so clear from the very beginning. I thought the fork in the path would be obvious when choosing between either the inland bridleway or the coastal walk taking me over the iconic chalk cliffs of Seven Sisters… alas! It was NOT obvious and I missed it!

I missed out on the epic Seven Sisters scenery and ended up hiking the bridleway through Jevington, which was still a lovely route passing lots of friendly horses… just a very underwhelming finish compared to the one I was expecting!

Final Thoughts

I absolutely loved my time on the South Downs Way National Trail. Although I originally set about to do the whole thing alone in the space of five or six days, I was much happier giving myself a break in the middle to rest and having other people join me on the trail.

Staying flexible and playing each day as it came had its advantages as there was less pressure to stick to a set itinerary. If I wanted to keep going further than I planned that day, then I could. Equally, having a goal to reach at the end of the day and knowing a hot shower and meal were waiting for me at the end of a day was also a great incentive to keep moving.

The main thing I struggled with mentally was motivating myself - normally I have a group to lead and keep spirits high for them but this time I only had myself to keep myself going and thats where voice notes from friends came in so handy. My friends are incredible and they know how much more a voice note means to me than a text and they really lifted my spirits when I was struggling. It’s another thing I didn’t plan for but was so glad when I turned off airplane mode if I stopped for a break and I had a few voice notes to make me smile and giggle, I really loved those moments.

I would recommend the trail to anyone, however if you didn’t want to carry all your camping gear and explore more of the villages along the way, I would stretch the journey over 10 days, pre-book shepherds huts, inns, glamping pods and AirBnBs every 10-12 miles or so and make a real holiday out of it. That’s what I plan to do at some point with my mum who is unable to carry a heavy bag due to injury. That way, we can enjoy the journey together, walk for only a few hours each day and see it a lot more of the area than I did.

My Map…

Here are the key spots I have written about - places to sleep, eat and top up water. Feel free to use the info on your own adventure!

For past and future adventures feel free to give me a follow @emkarembo

And remember, SayYesMore and #MakeLikeMemorable. Thanks for reading!

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YesTribe Weekly: No adventure too big or too small

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YesTribe Weekly: No adventure too big or too small

When it comes to adventures, I’m comfortable saying that we’re pretty highly qualified as a group. From dancing to hiking, kayaking to knitting, climbing mountains to baking cakes – we’ve got a lot of areas covered in the adventure department!

We had a post from one of our members this week who said she had been taking part in some of her own little adventures with her kids in the form of some wild swimming and stand-up paddle boarding. Jane shared that one of her memorable conversations from last year’s Yestival was based around the thought that our adventures are what we perceive them to be, which I entirely agree with and think is very important. Jane explained;

“Your adventures don’t have to be huge or outrageous to be life affirming”

We should all remember this whenever we have those little self-doubting thoughts that make us feel like what we are doing is not as great as what someone else is doing – some people need to climb mountains, some people just need to feel the grass under their feet, but whatever gives you that sense of excitement or makes you feel alive, it doesn’t matter what it is – it matters what it does for you.

Daylight robbery

This week saw the summer solstice, and a few of you captured some beautiful photos. The sun has a way of creating some of the most beautiful views, right? One of our members, Helen, managed to get herself up at 4am to greet the rising sun on the day of the summer solstice – that’s dedication in its finest form! And what a beautiful reward she got for her effort.

Sunrise

Sunrise

The summer solstice marks the longest day of the year, which means we get the most daylight before the days start getting shorter again. We all love the sunshine and I think many people feel like the day is over when the sun has gone down but, as the saying goes, life is what you make it.

I have had to remind myself many times that the day isn’t over when it gets dark. Sometimes I feel like this because I want to enjoy being outdoors in the daylight as long as I can, and when it gets dark I feel like a kid who has been told to come indoors by my mum! I sulk, basically (I hope this isn’t just me..!). However, when I change my mindset, I can enjoy the darker evenings.

I can enjoy being more productive with other things indoors without the distraction of the outdoors pulling me away! Or even better – I can ‘allow’ myself an early night and therefore an early morning.

Now I am also not the best early morning person…not because I’m grumpy or lazy – I just struggle to get up, but some of the best mornings I’ve had are from being awake early! The air, the light, the birds, the sounds – it’s all so different first thing in the morning when most of the world is still asleep. Dawn has this magical power of creating a ‘morning world’, which fades as the rest of the world eventually wakes up.

So instead of being sad about shorter days (which aren’t actually shorter…mind-blowing!), think of what you could do to make the most of them. If you need ideas, you know who to ask…

Good things

In a world where there is so much bad news on TV and so much negativity in the media, we need people like Jordan. Jordan posted in the YesTribe this week to say that he planned to walk for peace in several countries, in an attempt to prove to himself and the world that;

“Outside of the news, the world is full of wonderful people who are just doing their best”

What a beautiful sentiment to have, but someone told Jordan that his dream of a better world would never happen.

Maybe that person is a realist, but I think it is an admirable trait to be a person of hope and someone who sees the good in the world. 

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His post spoke to me in many ways, and I felt for Jordan who seemed to want to prove to the world that it’s a beautiful place outside of all the negative media that we are constantly fed. Now I don’t think anyone wishing for world peace is expecting perfection or a miracle, but just that more people spread happiness and love than they do hate or negativity. 

The truth is, the world is a better place than it would be without people like Jordan. It all makes for a better world to spread happiness, find the good in people, and encourage peace and kindness, and I believe Jordan is in just the right place in our tribe, where he can find that goodness he seeks in thousands of YesTribers who feel just the same.

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This is very ambitious, but here goes

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This is very ambitious, but here goes

This is an account of social media fulfilling its potential to do good in the world, at a time when that message is especially important. By Chris Lee.

Early in March I left my prized Alpkit sleeping bag - the one that kept me warm while cycling across Canada - on a train bound for Newcastle.

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I'd thought it was a train bound for York until we'd been sitting in York station for about thirty seconds. The next three seconds involved me realising the train was about to move; that if it did I'd miss my important and imminent meeting; and that I had to get myself and my stuff out of the train sharpish.

The sleeping bag was mistakenly abandoned in the frantic fluster that followed.

"Bugger", I thought, when I noticed its absence after the train departed. Bound, irretrievably, for Newcastle.

I asked the platform attendant where to report lost luggage. "Try the ticket office", she offered.

I asked the ticket office if I could report lost luggage. "Try the kiosk", they countered. "We're LNER, you need TransPennine". The first allusion to the multi-company rigmarole I was about to encounter.

I asked the kiosk if I could report lost luggage. "Sure. What was it? What did it look like? Which train? Where did you get on? Which coach? Which seat?" They noted everything down in a book, and told me to wait for a call.

Which I did, all morning. The prescribed time came and went, while images of my suspicious sleeping bag package being detonated by The British Transport Police filled my mind. "See it. Say it. Sorted."

I took to Twitter in an attempt to expedite things. LNER put me in touch with TransPennine, because they operated the train I'd been on. TransPennine put me back in touch with LNER, because they manage the station at Newcastle. LNER put me in touch with Northern, because they manage Manchester Victoria where I'd joined the service.

By the end of this I had the call sign of the train when I'd been on board, it's new call sign, it's current location, and various other bits of information. But no further information on the location of my sleeping bag.

Then, later in the afternoon as I was beginning to abandon hope: "Chris, great news! We've got it! I've just spoken to the conductor and he's now back in Newcastle so it must have been on a trip today!"

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I was elated. Getting it home from Newcastle was the next logistical challenge, preferably without me having to go and collect it in person: A return ticket to Newcastle from home costs about the same as the sleeping bag did new.

So this time I took to Facebook, and more specifically to The Yes Tribe: An excellent bunch of people with the tagline "where strangers are just friends waiting to happen".

"This is very ambitious", I typed. "But here goes."

I wrote a post recounting the spiel above, then asked if anyone living near the station could pick it up and send it down to me. "I will of course pay for the postage and add the price of two pints (or equivalent treat) for your troubles."

The silence I expected was short-lived. "I have a friend who will be passing through Newcastle late tomorrow evening so could potentially pick it up?" "I can pick it up on Wednesday / Thursday if you’ve not found anyone yet." "I'm going to Newcastle next weekend so can if no one has got it by Saturday!"

The offers poured in. Seven people, formerly strangers, all willing to go out of their way to help. A few days later the postman handed me my sleeping bag, safe and sound.

The YesTribe was founded in 2015 by Dave Cornthwaite, who by then had spent a decade being led by a personal motto, ‘say yes more’. Dave dropped me a line after seeing the sleeping bag post and was delighted to hear it had been returned safely. Dave said, “If there was ever a vision for the YesTribe, it would be that its members were mirrors of those trail or river angels who once helped me, a stranger, when I momentarily passed through their lives in the midst of a personal adventure. My belief in humanity was refreshed at each encounter, and now The YesTribe has blossomed into a community that puts kindness and decency first, whether in the midst of an exciting adventure, or the hardest times in life, or like this, a little moment where making someone’s day depends entirely on you willingly offering a few minutes of your day to help someone you’ve never met before.

“It should be noted that Graham, the YesTriber who helped return the sleeping bag to you, got in touch and said he’d like to donate the postage fee you’re sending him to the YesTribe. We’ll gladly put it towards a fund to buy a sleeping bag for someone who wants to go camping, but can’t afford the gear”

If you want to find out more, follow the YesTribe on Facebook and Instagram and visit the SayYesMore website.

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YesStories March 2018: A Guest Review

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YesStories March 2018: A Guest Review

Kevin Self offers a reflection of our monthly tales of adventure.

Last night I went to Yes Stories in London - ‘a night of inspiration.’ It was.

There is such a great feeling and a buzz being in a space like that - making new friends and catching up with friends wearing big smiles and sporting generous hugs and finding what they’re up to.

Then there’s that effervescent magic that rubs off when people have been up to stuff out in the world, filling their tanks of goodness and sharing what they got from it.

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Last night I learned that:

- no kit and no time are not an excuse to do an adventure. There’s a heap of fine capital cities within a few days of England, there’s weekends, there’s Halfords and if your shoes aren’t up to it there’s always emergency Tesco sliders! 🚴‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚴‍♂️

- that you don’t need a map nor a compass to reconnect with yourself and walk the mountain route around Mont Blanc. Just book the flight and go with it. And trust in yourself (unless wild horses are involved)🐴🏔

- that everyone has a skill. And if yours is repairing aircraft then it just makes sense to build your own aircraft, put a Herby goes bananas engine in it, and fly around the world. And don’t forget your mountain bike. And, it’s ok not to have a cause. ‘Just because you can’ works just fine.🛩🌎

- that there’s something magical about taking yourself off on a solo adventure, to experiencing the world, that rheindeer are great listeners and your biggest fears very rarely come true. That sense of achievement from relying on yourself when your tent breaks or you can’t see your hand in front of your face from the clouds.🏕🙂🙂🔥🙂🙂😀

- that we have a global pandemic of mental health and some countries, or some sub societies at least, are doing a better job at supporting it through conversation and community. And awesome people like Dr Sophie are willing to take on dealing with it.🤝🌍

- that just because you have to do it alone and Siberia has come to stay is no reason not to take on your adventure. If you’re going to do it. Do it. And you can never, ever be too daft - like howling like a wolf with all your lungs on the top of the snowy downs. And there’s no bears Hampshire. 🐻❄️🏃‍♀️

- that you are never, ever too old, unfit, unable to take on life! I learned that there’s a triathlon - Arch to Arc - run from Marble Arch to the coast, swim the channel, cycle to the Arc de Triomphe in Paris. Simple. Or not. And I felt honoured to share a room with a man who at 49 became the fastest, oldest person to complete it, and still be so humble.🏃‍♂️🚴‍♂️🏊‍♂️🚀

Oh, and how could I forget, a special guest appearance by Ruth and Rhoda - these 2 aweome girls are going to smash a record this year cycling from Lands End to JoG on a trailer and trailer bike. Ruth is age 5 and Rhoda is age 3! That’s some pretty inspiring parenting Tom .👨‍👩‍👧‍👧🚲🚲🚲🚲

And overall... that people are kind, and generous in a pub in london on a cold Tuesday evening, and everywhere you open up to them in the world if you let them in.❤️

So what did I take away?

At all comes down to action

Commit, be, do, have

These stories could be mine. Could be yours in the future. The only difference is taking action now so that future doesn’t stay in tomorrow, just a nice chat in the pub. I had some great conversations around my ‘Home to Home’ solo run - from Godalming to Bath over Easter. I’ve got a physio triage today and next step is to find a cross country route that will avoid too much wayfinding. Simple 😊

Today’s % for my life is to commit - I am doing this and today I will set my route.🏃‍♂️💪🏅

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YesStories February 2018 - A Review

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YesStories February 2018 - A Review

It's always great when we add a closing bookend to Winter's hibernation with the first YesStories of the year. Andy Bartlett was back to host the event, and as usual brought a whole lot of energy to the room as well as sharing a tale about a cycle ride in Portugal which didn't all go to plan.

Andy defines himself as "a solar-powered energiser bunny" in search of warm adventures, and he reminded us that even if things don't work out it'll all be ok if you're willing to roll with the punches (and if you remember to pack your bike pedals in the hand luggage).

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There are always a solid handful of people attending YesStories for the first time, and so many of them come alone. Awesome!

There are always a solid handful of people attending YesStories for the first time, and so many of them come alone. Awesome!

 

Stace Martin has been with the YesTribe since Year One and his confidence as a speaker grows each time he steps up to the front. His Christmas hiking adventure in Scotland became a series of falls, map-reading fails and what seemed like an eternal search for a non existent path, and Stace had us all in stitches with his dry one-liners.

"It's ok to have a slight sense of humour failure, especially when you've got one bent pole, you're tired and there's no path" Stace told us, adding that his rucksack is called Blue, because...you guessed it, it's blue. "I'm not the quickest walker, not the quickest anything really," Stace told us, which isn't all bad, we reckon. He was motivated to get himself out of what turned out to be a tricky situation with a determination to not be that person on the news getting rescued. Thankfully, for all of us, he made it.

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Val Ismaili was next up, with a brief insight into a recurring knee problem which required a number of surgeries. Then, of course, Val embarked on a long walk, becoming the first thru-hiker of the new Trans Caucasian Trail. Not only did he give everyone a little nudge towards visiting the region (a group trip he'll now be leading for the YesTribe later this year), but Val's story was a reminder of just how fulfilling it is to make a contribution on top of doing something just for the sake of it. Especially if there's vodka involved.

A yes isn't only a gift we can give to ourselves, sometimes it takes someone else (in Val's case it was the TCT founder Tom Allen saying 'yes, you should come and hike the trail') - an important reminder that we're all in that position to push others forward by giving them a bit of positive support. Of course, the kindness of strangers is never more apparent than when we're in the midst of an adventure and the friendship Val experienced on his journey made the region even more attractive. 

Follow Val on his website and Instagram

 

Our fourth speaker was a new Outdoor Champion for Ordnance Survey, Matt Kettlewell, who has a ridiculously varied working CV from working with disabled owls in South Africa to babysitting little (big) hippos. Matt's sometimes hapless approach to life made his presentation all the more entertaining, and you know it's going to be good when you realise he's the type of guy who accidentally accepts a job offer in South Africa thinking that SA meant 'Suffolk'.

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Each YesStories we enjoy a call-in from someone in the midst of an adventure, and this time round it was Frances Mills who announced her intention to run around the coast of Britain at Yestival 2017. Frances called in from her tent, which was shrouded in red because she couldn't work out how to operate her headtorch properly!

She's taking a wonderfully free approach to her journey, aiming to round Britain over the next three winters and only running, hiking and moving when she feels like it. Daily distance goals are not on her agenda and she takes decisions according to how she feels. Frances invites people to join her on her journey and is even open to a surprise visit - just not at nighttime!

Follow France's run on www.asiwandered.co.uk

 

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You can spot a maths teacher from a mile off, and Roshan Daryanani's slides and charts explaining her journey into doing something uncomfortable each day for 100 days were both insightful and hilarious. Roshan was full of perfect soundbites, "You have to trust yourself even when other people think you're a bit weird, and when you do something new you can't predict what's going to happen" and she left everyone wondering what their next little adventure would be. 

Read about Roshan's adventures on www.tinyadventuresinliving.com

 

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Ewan Paterson usually presents alongside his fiancé Katie but as she was ill he took the stage alone to talk about their round-the-world cycling trip. Ewan was full of insights, including the freedom of travelling light, learning about cultures and environmental issues by moving slowly and a reminder that you don't have to visit monuments and landmarks to really travel.

He wrapped up with a great flip, imagining that a British family were explaining to their friends that they took in an Uzbeki cycling tourist, fed them, gave them a bed and then sent them off the next day without any clue where they were going or what they were doing. It's the type of hospitality so many of us experience on adventures and this is one of the reminders SayYesMore tries to push regularly - wherever you live remember that if someone is cycling, kayaking, walking or skateboarding past your home on their way to a far off destination then taking them in for a night is such a valuable offering. 

Follow Ewan and Katie on www.thefreewheelers.co.uk

 

Dave Cornthwaite wrapped up with a short adventure story about not having a clue how to make a film and then updated us on all things SayYesMore, including progress with the YesBus, plans for a new Tribe-wide book club and a 2000 mile community ride on the waterbike he took down the Norway coast last year. Keep your eyes peeled on The YesTribe to get involved!

 

Thanks to everyone for coming, to Andy Bartlett for hosting and all our speakers for sharing their tales. Here's to an amazing year to come.

Signing out, Team Yes

Night night :)

Night night :)

 

Takeaways

You don't always need a path to have an adventure. 

Sometimes it's ok to have a slight sense of humour failure, especially when you've got one bent pole, you're tired and there's no path

I am a solar powered energiser bunny - Andy

Your plans don't have to work out if you're willing to roll with the punches 

It's great to make a contribution on top of doing something for the sake of it.

 A yes isn't always something we say to ourselves, sometimes it's a gift from someone else

Kindness of strangers often appears when conditions are bad. Vulnerability means we're open to this kindness.

SA does not stand for Suffolk!

Sharing an adventure plan at Yestival meant that I was accountable, so I couldn't back out - Frances Mills

Make decisions based on how you feel

You have to trust yourself even when other people think you're a bit weird

When you do something new you can't predict what's going to happen

What are we missing out on because we somehow feel awkward - it's worth being conscious of

Challenge to everyone - be completely honest for a day

You don't need a lot of gear to be happy, if it's not being used then get rid of it!

You don't have to visit monuments and tourist attractions to really travel

Next time you see a traveller, be kind to them. It means more than you could imagine.

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